AI Assisted Relationships

I recently spoke with someone from Gen Z who just began dating someone new

He said he will upload entire chat histories of their texts and shared photos to ChatGPT and ChatGPT will analyze the relationship, break down their relational patterns and attachment styles, and advise…

— Amy Nixon (@texasrunnerDFW) December 22, 2025

… him how to approach the relationship going forward for optimal outcomes, even crafting exact texts for him to send back to her

And it is good at it. It’s really accurate and *incredibly* good.

According to this guy, “all his friends are doing this now.”

Wow.

Thinking back to that era of my life, I remember all the uncertainty of a brand new relationship. To relieve the uncertainty, we would go to our friends to share and get advice. The entire experience was human-based.

This is so much easier and more powerful than that, and the entire experience is technology-based.

Still trying to wrap my mind around all the implications of this. But a few initial thoughts:

1. Anything you text or send to another person can be turned over to AI without your knowledge.

2. Are any of these relationships organic? What if both parties are doing this? Is this just one Chatbot dating another Chatbot with a human facade?

3. This doesn’t bode well for the traditional dating coach or marriage therapist career path.